by Mauverneen
ornaments that were gifts, and ornaments I forgot I had. And almost every one has a story. Sequined ornaments I made the first Christmas I was married, elves that entertained my girls when they were small, a walnut santa, an orange turkey that we all have a laugh over every year.
It occurred to me that that is what makes Christmas – the
stories. The ornaments handed down from your grandmother, the ones your kids
made, the ones received from a special friend, even ones you picked out
yourself – they all come with a story.
We enjoy the stories even if we never tell them. We relive
them simply by looking at or touching those special mementos, because we carry
those stories in our hearts.
I have a Christmas story to share. It’s a true story and it
happened, oh, quite a few years back. It’s a good story.
It is reprinted here pretty much as published in the Cup of
Comfort for Christmas anthology.
Oh! Christmas Tree
It was the first Christmas without both of my grandparents.
They had lived full, rich lives into their eighties, leaving behind five
children, four grandchildren, and five great-granddaughters. Grandpa had died
first, after a brief bout with bone cancer, at home on Thanksgiving night.
Several years later, congestive heart failure finally won the battle and took
Grandma in her sleep one January night.
The tradition in my Slovak family is to open gifts on
Christmas Eve after enjoying a home-cooked dinner of sour soup (which only
those of Slavic heritage can appreciate) and fish. With grandmother no longer
there to prepare the old-fashioned Christmas Eve meal, we debated for weeks
whether to continue the tradition. But we decided it just wouldn’t be Christmas
Eve without our fish and sour soup.
My mother and her younger sister got out their mother’s
handwritten recipes and gave it their best shot. After all, they had assisted
her with the preparations for years. How hard could it be? My mother baked the
traditional nut and poppy seed rolls, which were even tastier than Grandma’s.
And she found just the right kind of fish for the entrée and mushrooms for the
soup. The rest of us did what we could; peeled and boiled potatoes, cleaned and
prepared the vegetables, set the table. We even remembered my grandmother’s
sugared, stewed prunes.
Sixteen of us shared the new, old-fashioned Christmas Eve
dinner that year, which turned out to be almost as good as Grandma’s. Everyone
was glad that we had decided not to give up that tradition.
After doing the dishes and opening the Christmas presents,
the adults sat around the living room, reminiscing as families do on holidays,
while the children went off to play together. The freshly cut tree was
beautifully decorated, as always, with lights and ornaments that had been
around forever. It stood in a corner of the living room where my grandparents’
favorite chairs had always been, as if to fill the void of their absence.
As I sat across the room, gazing at the tree, the oddest
thing happened. The tree shook. Gently, as if someone had reached in, grabbed
it by the trunk, and given it a single shake. All heads turned at the melodious
sound of the ornaments tinkling gently, sweetly, momentarily hypnotized until
the ornaments settled back into place. No one spoke. Then we all spoke at once.
“What happened?”
“Who did that?”
“Where are the kids?”
One uncle grabbed his camera and took a picture of the tree.
We did our best to explain what happened, but couldn’t. It
was December in Illinois ;
no windows were open, no door had opened or closed to cause a breeze. No one
was even walking around; everyone in the room was sitting. We looked under the
tree for a toddler; all the kids were in another room on the other side of the
house. We jumped on the floor. The tree didn’t move. (The house has a concrete
floor. Nothing moved.) Needless to say, there was only one topic of
conversation the rest of the evening.
A few weeks later, my uncle brought his pictures around. On
the photo he’d taken of the shaking tree was a pair of round, hazy, but obvious
gray spots. Lens flare? Maybe. Spirits of Christmas past? We will never know.
Film is sensitive; there could be a technical explanation. Then again, maybe
not.
We still discuss this event at family gatherings, especially
at Christmas, when we all sit around looking at the tree and hoping, I think,
that it will move again. But it never has. And we’ve never found a physical
explanation for the tree’s shaking. What we do know for sure is that we all had
the same feeling when it happened; that Grandma and Grandpa had found a way to
tell us they were together again and happy that we had carried on our family
Christmas tradition.
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As always, words and photos are my own, and require permission to reprint. However, feel free to share the blog in it's entirety. In fact, I encourage it!
Interested in photo prints? Contact me! http://mauverneen.com email: maureenblevins@yahoo.com
Maureen, I love this story! And I feel the same about the ornaments and I made those Lee Ward ornaments our first Christmas, too! Merry Christmas!
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